Pin trading frustration. Time to vent.
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(by the way, anyone else still waiting for those Tinks dressed as characters that were teased on ds.com but never came out!?)
$400 for a pin!? That's 4 months of car insurance!! I'm sorry, but they are NOT worth the inflated price people put them at. And I've noticed that these guys, along with the Beloved Tales pins have only gone up in price THIS year! I've been watching the prices on eBay, and wow, they've gone up.
The funny thing is many trade "up" as many times as they can, always looking to make a "better" trade for themselves. Not for what they collect, no, but so that they have better pins to trade.
I'm realizing I traded way NOT in favor to myself, and have repeatedly done so. I've had people say they want the pin I have for "my collection" (it's apparently become known that I generally traded easier when it was for a collection rather than for them to have as a trader, and that is likely stopping unfortunately) and I do lopsided trades to see it in their book the next time I see them and they are trading it really hard as compared to how I traded it to THEM.
I do find it ridiculous to find so many trading so hard for pins they don't WANT, just that they are "tough to get" or VHTF. I'm getting close to taking a small break due to this. People I go out of my way for getting pins they know I would like when I am holding pins for them, and trading the pin I might like. Then they get upset with me when they try to trade me stuff I don't much want for that pin that I specifically got for them saying they could go get it at any time (cast pins and WDI pins included here). Well then, go get it yourself. I tried to be nice.
I'm a nice guy. I like getting people what they collect. I look out for pins specifically for others. I HATE that that is now biting me in the butt and seeing how many people are becoming much harder traders and kinda screwing over people so they can have better traders, not things for their collections...
/rant (tired)
I agree with you. Out of curiosity, why did disney auctions close down? it seemed to be doing good business.
The funny thing is many trade "up" as many times as they can, always looking to make a "better" trade for themselves. Not for what they collect, no, but so that they have better pins to trade.
I'm realizing I traded way NOT in favor to myself, and have repeatedly done so. I've had people say they want the pin I have for "my collection" (it's apparently become known that I generally traded easier when it was for a collection rather than for them to have as a trader, and that is likely stopping unfortunately) and I do lopsided trades to see it in their book the next time I see them and they are trading it really hard as compared to how I traded it to THEM.
I do find it ridiculous to find so many trading so hard for pins they don't WANT, just that they are "tough to get" or VHTF. I'm getting close to taking a small break due to this. People I go out of my way for getting pins they know I would like when I am holding pins for them, and trading the pin I might like. Then they get upset with me when they try to trade me stuff I don't much want for that pin that I specifically got for them saying they could go get it at any time (cast pins and WDI pins included here). Well then, go get it yourself. I tried to be nice.
I'm a nice guy. I like getting people what they collect. I look out for pins specifically for others. I HATE that that is now biting me in the butt and seeing how many people are becoming much harder traders and kinda screwing over people so they can have better traders, not things for their collections...
/rant (tired)
As to the "trading up" or going after HTF pins that dont fit a collection. Of course people do this! If I want a pin, but the person who owns it doesnt like whats in my book, I am going to trade some stuff out for other nice "retraders" in an attempt to find something that person wants. Some of the pins on my want list are going to be insane hard to get. I need HTF and VHTF pins in my traders to get them. I will offer multiples of my traders to get those HTF pins for my book too. I am sure i am not the only one.
I more mean the ones who have 3-4 books of trader pins and need... 4-5 pins for their personal collections. But then, when you need something for your personal collection and you show them a positive trading LE 250 WDI, it's not good enough for a upside down LE 1500 from 4 years ago. It's ok, just a little frustrating. I kinda feel like I've hit a brick wall lately and that some people have gotten much harder to trade with. Either that, or I got REALLY taken for a few months and don't have as much worth "cheating" from me anymore... lol
Such a good point. Finding the "low" to buy takes a lot of patience. If we could all just keep our heads and repeat to ourselves, "It's only a pin..... It's only a pin....."! :anxious:Laws of economics are often thrown around, so remember another one, "buy low." All the money and insanity being directed to BTs, PODMs and marquees means that something is being undervalued right now. Find them. Don't chase stocks, I mean pins trading at their all time high, just because you think it will only go higher. Didn't work out so well for real estate, pins are not immune. Bubbles burst. Be prepared for when they do. Except some Gomes pins, that's real estate in Manhattan.
Go ahead and vent. It really does make you feel betterI think we've all had the kind of frustration you were talking about. And I think we can all relate. Unfortunately, I don't think anyone has an answer, or a way to make it better. It's just something that all collectors, no matter what they collect, have to deal with. At times the frustration can add up and make you want to hit the office walls (love that clip you posted!!). At other times, you'll get lucky and find what you were looking for at a good price. I guess maybe that's a way to get through the crappy times, is to think about the good times and all those deals or great trades you've found in the past. Either that, or hop on the bay for a little less expensive but still highly therapeutic retail therapy
+ a million! I think sometimes I get in such a low regarding collecting that I feel like it will never get better and then... huzzah! I find a pin I needed! Or, yay! Someone actually wants to trade with me rather than me having to purchase a pin I wanted, and I get to help their collection too!
I'm waiting for one of those good moments currently, but in the meantime I can read these threads and appreciate that I am not alone in my frustrations and vents. =)
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