DLR Social Media Hype about PT at DL
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THIS.I realize there is Junk on the boards. But, in all honesty, a lot of guests bring Junk they purchase on eBay or Amazon and trade.
That breaks my heart. I'm so glad you were there to represent the best of pin trading and turn their day around.I think the worst interaction I've seen was guy had two trade lanyards with some really good pins. A little girl (of about 4 or 5 yo) asked him about trading for one of the pins for one off of her princess lanyard. His response was "do you know how much this pin is worth!? No I will not trade", and walked off. The little girl left crying. I talked to the little girls mom and apologized for the guys rude behavior and gave the mom a bunch of trading pins for her two kids to trade.
OMG, I only read to, "do you know how much this is worth" and my chin dropped open. Sheesh...I think the worst interaction I've seen was guy had two trade lanyards with some really good pins. A little girl (of about 4 or 5 yo) asked him about trading for one of the pins for one off of her princess lanyard. His response was "do you know how much this pin is worth!? No I will not trade", and walked off. The little girl left crying. I talked to the little girls mom and apologized for the guys rude behavior and gave the mom a bunch of trading pins for her two kids to trade.
While that is being a jerkface to a kid and completely unacceptable, let me point out the other side of the problem with that encounter: the kid's parents.I think the worst interaction I've seen was guy had two trade lanyards with some really good pins. A little girl (of about 4 or 5 yo) asked him about trading for one of the pins for one off of her princess lanyard. His response was "do you know how much this pin is worth!? No I will not trade", and walked off. The little girl left crying. I talked to the little girls mom and apologized for the guys rude behavior and gave the mom a bunch of trading pins for her two kids to trade.
Family first time trading, kids had new starter lanyards and that was it. Mom knew little to nothing about trading. I talked to her for a little bit and tried to impart some quick pin basics.While that is being a jerkface to a kid and completely unacceptable, let me point out the other side of the problem with that encounter: the kid's parents.
Would you send your kid into a Nike store to buy a pair of sneakers with $5 in hand and expect them to come out with new shoes? No, because they don't have enough money to buy them. Might someone take pity on them and give them a pair of $200 shoes for $5? Sure. But the parents shouldn't have the expectation of it happening or be surprised when it doesn't. And they should prepare the kid to be disappointed and take it as a lesson in why you should work hard to be able to afford better things that you want.
If the parents don't educate themselves and their children about how to pin trade with other guests (many do, many don't) by explaining: "When you are trading here, these are people's own pins. They are looking to trade for pins they want, too. So they may say no to a trade and that's okay; you can say no thank you, too."
Because it's the uneducated kids and parents not doing their job to explain to them that was 50% of the problem here. Of course the kid wants the $50 pin because it's bigger and better and cooler than the .50 scrapper on their starter lanyard.
In this situation, the guy was absolutely wrong by being rude to a kid. No excuse for that. But the parents were also wrong by letting their kid offer an unequal trade that wasn't fair to the person with the good pins without warning the kid that the person may not choose to trade with the kid because those are really nice pins.
Then there are the parents who use their kids to trade for better pins knowing plenty of traders will make exceptions to trade unequally to kids. Other traders solve this problem by having a kid's trade board where they can trade any pin just like park boards. That only works if you have a lot of pins for trade. If, like me, you are on a tight budget and you can't afford to trade your few good trade pins to a kid for scrappers, then you should gently and politely apologize and smile so while the kid may be disappointed, they won't be discouraged. That's 50% of it, too. But parents bear responsibility. Don't throw kids into situations unprepared. If you wouldn't send them into a fine restaurant with $5 to order a steak dinner, don't give them .50 scrappers in an area full of pins worth $50-$500. Just keep them to trading with Cast Members for other cheap pins. That's what's best FOR THE KID.
I think this is the crux of it. There was a lot to learn when I first started out. If I hadn’t found this sight I am not sure how I would even know there are different pins with different values. There was a better way to respond to the kid.Family first time trading, kids had new starter lanyards and that was it. Mom knew little to nothing about trading. I talked to her for a little bit and tried to impart some quick pin basics.
Just wanted to share that Connie is famous! She’s in a video a friend of mine filmed while trading at DL.
I don’t recall the rules for outside links so if anyone wants to see Connie go check out Melodie Pinz These on YouTube. It’s the video that was posted today
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